Monday, November 24, 2008

The Dateable Standards.

My girls were trying on my wedding ring tonight and speculation about their own future engagement rings and requirements of future spouses. They both know our little rule of five when it comes to evaluating whether or not the male species is worthwhile or not. It helps give a minimum standard and scale to rank all the boys they know. Now these are our own personal rule of thumb.....so take it in stride and make any adjustments to suit your own needs.

1. Must love God and have faith.
2. Must be smart
3. Must be kind
4. Must be funny
5. Must come from a loving environment.

The girls are always evaluating pretty much every boy they meet (the curse of having boy-crazy girls). Rebecca will say well he meets three out of five requirements....I guess he just doesn't cut it....or he meets all the requirements plus bonus points for being really cute! You know all I can really ask for my girls is to have a wonderful future, but it is nice that they already come with a set of standards in place....let's hope they hold up through the teen years.

7 comments:

Heidi Ashworth said...

Sounds like a great list to me! What a wise mommy!
Ha! My word verifier word (or whatever they call it) is "gente"

Texan Mama @ Who Put Me In Charge said...

Whoa you forgot, "Must be willing to take out the trash" and "Must be willing to watch the occasional Chick Flick"

Hee hee

Colleen said...

Great list! (wish I had that list years ago...lol)

Jenkins said...

What a wonderful list. And great that you talk about it. It has to be hard raising teenage girls but with this kind of wonderful guidance (and a lot of prayer), they will be women of Godly character able to make good choices and parents that help them get there.

Dee said...

When my cousin was about 12 her aunt took her to a dude ranch for a Christian ministry along the lines of True Love Waits. Afterwards the 12 year old announced she was only going to date the man she's going to marry. She's now 18 and I have to say she's had about 3 boyfriends that I know of but each one has had to meet her uncle (aunt & uncle are her guardians) and pass his test before they're allowed to date.

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Elizabeth Channel said...

One and Four are key!

So sweet to think about these types of talks...

Melissa said...

When I was a teenager I wrote out a long list of qualities that were important to me in a husband. It really helped me to keep my standards high and marry a great guy.