What: We will meet to discuss the need for King Size beds, and gently getting rid of clinging sleeping spouses who want to sweat against our backs (gross!)
When: Any night is fine by me.....maybe then he'll be asleep when I come home and I can carve my own space on my side of the bed.
Where: Anyplace will do...just to escape.....for a bit.
Why:You know honestly I don't know why anymore it's not like he didn't become aware when marrying me....I am a very space oriented person. Not sure why nearly 14 years later this is still an issue....oh well, lol
Anyways...I am self-proclaimed President for life...do I have any other members out there?
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Um... Absolutely...Can I be Vice-President???
Sounds like you have some 'sensory issues'. Very adult of you - to start a support group, over having a meltdown. hehe. Barbara
ME ME ME!! Thank goodness for king size beds ;)
Can I come too. I'll be recording secretary. I think I have a slight claustrophobia problem and I don't like being pinned down. I can lay with my head on his chest and to to sleep that way but I HAVE to be the one in charge and able to get away when I want.
We have a Queen Size bed. I want to go for a King Size. DH wants Twin beds. He says I toss and turn too much, have allergies and cough in his ear and he's a light sleeper so I keep him awake. I was against the idea at first. Married people are suppose to share the same bed but the idea of separate beds is sounding more and more desirable.
Forgot to mention. DH rolls over and he's on top of me at night, then I have to wake up and bounce in place to turn over. If I lay on one side I'm in his ear, on the other side I'm so close to the edge my arm is hanging off and it goes to sleep. Hand goes numb and fingers get cold. On my back I have to put that hand under my back to keep it from hanging off the bed. So, DH has 3/4 of a Queen bed and I have about 1/8 since we also have 2 small dogs who like to sleep in bed with us and they get in the small of my back, under my shoulders and sometimes share my pillow.
GIVE ME SOME SPACE.
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